Brooks, Martha, wife

Today is International Women's Day, and March is Women's History month in the US (in Canada October is Women's History Month). 

In genealogy it can be extremely difficult to research women. They just don't show up in the general records. Once married they would generally take their husband's name and retreat into the home, never to be seen in the public record until perhaps when her husband died and she was named in his will. It can be hard to get a real picture of their lives. They're almost forgotten.

Case in point is my great-grandmother Martha Ellen Walker Brooks. Martha was born in Scarborough on 29 September 1873 to Thomas Walker and Hannah Topper. Thomas was born in Scarborough on 3 January 1830 and was a descendant of the founding family of Scarborough, the Thomsons. Hannah was born in Lincolnshire on 12 Jul 1841. She emigrated to Canada sometime between 1851 and 1862 with her siblings Sarah, George and Martha. Frank, William and Christopher joined their siblings at a later date (there were 13 children in total in the family). I don't have a picture of Thomas but here is a picture of Hannah, my great-great grandmother.

Hannah Topper Walker

I don't have the exact date of their marriage but they appear to have married some time in 1862. Their first child Sarah Ann was born in 1863 followed by Mary Jane in 1864. The next two children David (born in 1866) and Thomas (born in 1867) both died in infancy, George David was born in 1870, William Henry in 1871 and then Martha. Tragedy struck in 1876. The Walker's last child Thomas was born on 18 March 1876. He died on 23 May 1876 as a result of congestion of the lungs. 

His mother followed him to the grave on 21 April 1876 as a result of pyaemia from puerperal inflammation, duration of about 5 weeks dating back to the birth of her last child. Pyaemia was a type of septicaemia (blood poisoning)caused by the spread in the bloodstream of pus-forming bacteria released from an abscess. Without antibiotics the disease is almost always fatal.


Maternal mortality had improved by the end of the 19th century but many women still succumbed to complications from giving birth. The informant of the death was Thomas' older brother Andrew. Thomas must have been devastated. In fact he never remarried which was unusual in the 19th century, especially with a man running a farm with 5 young children.

It must have been difficult for Martha growing up without a mother. No doubt her older sisters helped her father parent their younger sister but by 1881 Mary Jane had moved out. She married in 1883 and Sarah Ann in 1891. By 1891 Thomas was living alone, which again was unusual. It was the custom for widowed parents to move in with one of their married children. I was unable to locate either Martha nor her two brothers in 1891 census so I don't know where they were living. They didn't appear listed with their married sisters, nor were they living with any of their Topper or Walker aunts, uncles or cousins. I like to think that Martha may have had an opportunity to have any interesting job but we'll never know for sure.

She finally surfaces on 13 December 1893 when she marries my great-grandfather John Andrew Brooks in Agincourt. She was 20 years old. Her brother William Henry was a witness as was her cousin Alice Hastings. Alice was also born in 1873 and also grew up without a mother. Elizabeth Ann Wallker died in 1875 of consumption, The new husband is listed as a farmer. In 1893 the employment of the bride was not listed. All we know is that she was single.

Now Martha is a married woman and that status will define her place in the world for the rest of her life. In each census she is listed as Brooks, Martha, wife. No employment is ever listed though she has her hands full working as a farm wife and raising her three sons. The 1901, 1911 and 1921 censuses all read the same.

1911 Canadian census

I've located the family on voter lists. On the 1935, she is listed as Brooks, Mrs. John Sr, housewife. As was the custom, her first name was not used. On the 1940 and 1945 list she is Brooks, Mrs. J, In 1949 her first name is used: Brooks, Martha hw. 

1935 Voter list

It was unlikely that Martha voted in the 1949 election. She had already developed dementia and a nurse was hired to help look after her. Nurse Edna attended my parents' wedding as well.

John Brooks Sr, Nurse Edna, Martha Walker Brooks, Anne Brooks, John Brooks Jr.

These are the only other pictures I have of Martha, taken with her son my grandfather William Thomas Brooks and my father Gordon Russell Brooks. 

 

I'm not sure when these pictures were exactly taken. I love her sweet smile. She died on June 24th 1952 at the age of 78 and was buried two days later in the Melville Presbyterian Church Cemetery in West Hill.

And that's what I know of her life. I wish I knew her hopes, her dreams and her disappointments. There was more to her life that I will never be able to learn about. But she was important in her own right. So for International Women's Day I leave you with the story of my great-grandmother, descendent of Scarborough pioneers, hardworking farm wife and beloved mother and grandmother. She is not forgotten to me.

Bill and Gertie - A love story

In honour of Valentine’s Day my blog this month is the story of my paternal grandparents Bill and Gertie Brooks. When I was a child I never thought of my grandparents as young people meeting and falling in love. They were just, you know, old! Yet it happened!

William Thomas Brooks was born in Scarborough then moved to Toronto to begin his career as a bookkeeper. He spent 1916-1919 in England and France as a member of the Canadian Expeditionary Forces, returning to Toronto when he was demobilized (see my November 2016 blog for further details). The 1920 Toronto City Directory (prepared in 1919) showed him boarding at 64 Homewood Avenue.

Gertrude Maud Kingswell was born in Kingston Ontario. She spent her formative years living at 32B Clergy Street with her parents and 6 siblings. By 1917 her brothers Ernest and William had moved to Toronto. Gertrude had been working as a stenographer in Kingston. Her employer at the Oddfellows Association provided her with a glowing reference as she prepared to move in 1919. 

The 1920 Toronto City Directory shows her boarding at 29 Saulter Street with her sister Elizabeth and Elizabeth’s husband James Essex.

I have no idea how my grandparents met. They both lived in the east end of the city which was a start. Gertie was Anglican and Bill was Presbyterian so the likely didn't meet at church. Bill worked at John Hillock and Co on George Street, Gertie worked at Eaton’s on Yonge Street which was nearby. Maybe they met at a lunch counter? Maybe they were introduced by friends? Or they met at a dance? We'll never know.

What I do know is that by 1920 they were an item. I have a few mementos of their early days together. This postcard was sent by Bill from Wingham. Not sure why he was in Wingham - there is no family connection that I know of, maybe work? 

He also sent flowers. The card and some petals were carefully saved so the bouquet must have been important to her.

And a birthday card 

The 1921 census was taken on June 2^nd 1921. Gertie was listed with her family living on 471 Queen Street East. I couldn't find Bill or his brothers anywhere in east Toronto or Scarborough. I like to think they were celebrating Bill 's upcoming marriage - Bill and Gertie were married on June 7^th. 

Gertie carefully preserved some flowers from her wedding bouquet as well as her headdress. 

As you can see from the picture she was a flapper bride.

Bill and Gertie had a long marriage. We had a Golden Wedding anniversary party for them in June of 1971. I know they loved having this certificate signed by Bill Davis, as they were both staunch Tories.

Unfortunately, Bill's health began to decline as he entered his 80's. He resided in Sunnybrook Hospital's K Wing with other WW1 veterans for several years. Gertie made the trip every day to visit him and help him eat his lunch. It was a long bus ride from her apartment on Cosburn Avenue – I took the trip with her a few times. Bill’s Alzheimer’s grew progressively worse but Gertie continued with her visits. He likely did not know who exactly she was by the end of his life. Bill died on March 26 1981. In June of that year they would have been married 60 years. 

Gertie died on March 30th 1985 and was laid to rest in Highland Memory Gardens next to her husband of 59 years. Happy Valentine's Day to them both!